She is the girl of your dreams,every time you see her your heart skips a beat, every thought in your head is about her, you make small scenarios in your head, taking her out, walking hand in hand with her ,talking and laughing with her and even kissing her. The problem is that you don’t even know her name,or you have never even spoken to her,or you’re casual friends period, so how are you going to get her to like you?.
Get Her To Notice You Too
Get yourself out there and let the world know you’re available! Maybe the girl you’re crushing on is crushing on you too, but thinks you’re taken. Drop hints that you like her or just bluntly say so. It always pays to be honest, even if you’re friends.
Be Bold
Girls always like confidence, so tell her what you have to say. There is always a time for subtleties later.Humor is always a great way to win over girls. By doing this you make that special someone feel more comfortable around you. Try to avoid dirty jokes and such (ie, jokes that your guy friends would find funny), and mostly go on wit and quips.
Ask Her Out
Asking a girl out can go either of 2 ways. She will either say yes or no. No doesn’t mean yes but sometimes no can mean maybe,if the answer no is followed by "I can’t tonight" or what ever night you chose to ask her out on, because "I have to be somewhere else", is an opening to ask about a different night. JUST BE STRAIGHT TO THE POINT.
Dig Deeper
Dig up any information you can find out about her. Search for her hobbies, interests, music she listens to, friends she likes, etc. Just understand her general style and adapt to it. The first thing a girl looks at is a guy’s style.
Compliment Her
Just make sure that you are sincere, don’t just make something up- if you look for something that really makes you like her, she’ll know that you’re interested in getting to know her better.
–salamat sa mga pinaghalong resources including own experiences, well what can I say, its hard to be a girl kase its not easy making first moves. We can throw hints pero hanggang dun lang yun. OOh pag -ibig makapilit ug makabuang—
hoho nga ^__^
Posted by pancakes at March 22, 2007, 3:43 am
good advice
but I must add something to that: Guys, be creative! One thing I hate is lack of imagination in a guy. Please be innovative, stand out from the crowd, be different. It pays to take a risk once in a while…
Posted by claire at March 22, 2007, 3:30 am